Sunday, January 28, 2018

August 28, 2017: Sharon

Hey family,
Hope all is well back at home! It's been a crazy week this week here
in Huddersfield! There was a lot going on! My companion Elder Viani is
a good guy, he's quite funny! His English is not the best so he asks me
how to say a word in English like every 30 seconds! He honestly though
is a really good guy outgoing about everything!  I don't know if it is
just the Italian culture but he is passionate about everything he
does! Like when he makes food he's dancing and singing at the top of
his lungs and he gets really into putting the
ingredients, he is really precise about it! He makes the best pasta
as well!  One night, this was funny, I had just got done following up
with the teams and I turned the corner and he was turned around facing
the mirror with his backside towards it! I was a little thrown off but
I went back around the corner so he didn't see me and just kind of
peaked my head around, he was flexing his butt off and on in front of
the mirror! He was like alternating cheeks and making noises! Honestly was 
one of the funniest things ! I just started bursting out laughing! He's
 like, "what you not like Elder Tuita?" In his thick Italian accent it honestly 
was so funny I wish I would of gotten it on video! He's a good guy!

Besides Elder Viani this week was super stressful! When I gotten into
the area one of the three companionships that left had someone getting
baptized this week! So she was left to us! The day I got there I got a
call from the bishop saying how this girl shouldn't be baptized its too
early, she's not ready! I had not met Sharon yet, I guess the bishop had
just found out that week and so he basically told me we would be
pushing her baptism back! I explained to him my previous experiences
of pushing baptisms back and usually how if we push dates back when
they are ready the adversary is just too strong he'll swoop in and ruin
everything! In my first area in Grimsby, there were two baptism that did not go through
because the Bishop felt it was too quick and we had to pushed them back. Something
ended up happening to them both and we lost them.  It was tough because
I new they were both ready they wanted to change their lives so
badly! But without out entering into covenant that gave them access
to Christ and his atonement, the adversary was just too strong for them 
and within that extra week Satan got a hold of them!  I
explained to him if she is not ready we will have to push it
back 3 weeks, because after this week she was going on vacation for 2!
So it was either she be baptized in 4 days or she would have to wait
another three weeks! After hearing everything from Bishop he explained
she had only been taught two discussions. The missionaries never taught her in 
her home it was just on the patio, and on top of that there was never a member 
present!  I begin to have my own doubts, but when I was able to meet her the
lesson was amazing and we had a member there
as well. The spirit was so strong! It was way evident that she was
ready and that this is what she wanted! She had stopped smoking cold turkey
she had felt the spirit, she was very converted! She was so exited for
her baptism on Saturday, leaving me feeling very stressed not knowing how to 
convince this bishop that she was ready! It was so clear that she was ready, 
and an over whelming feeling came to me that her baptism needed to be on
Saturday! Despite of this spiritual experience I remember being on my
knees with so much fear coming to me! All of these thoughts started
coming to me so I prayed again and still felt very strongly to do
whatever was possible to make the baptism happen on Saturday! I remember
sitting there feeling very alone and feeling very overwhelmed but I
knew what was right and what the Lord needed me to do!  I called
Bishop and he was not happy, he basically told me we weren't having  a
baptism and that we Elder were pushing this baptism! He was very upset
but I tried explaining to him as best I could that she was ready, and we can't stop her 
from wanting this! An hour later president called and I explained to him the
situation! Things were not looking good, the ward was not happy I was
new and I just felt like everyone hated me! On top of that Sharon had
just gone missing we could not get a hold of her! I remember coming
home and praying that night asking Heavenly Father for help! I
remember feeling so lonely but while I was there praying it was almost 
as if he was there comforting me himself! I
was reminded of what the savior went through and the lonely path he
made back to his Father in Heaven! I went to bed that night with piece
in my heart! That morning Sharon called us and told us she had just
been in the hospital for an emergency but was good to go! I called
Bishop again and begged him to let it happen! After a lot of talking we
finally came to an  agreement to have the baptism on Sunday after
church! Sunday came around and Sharon had a dream the night of of her
father telling her she was making the right choice! She was crying all
the way through her baptism! When she received the Holy Ghost one of
the members gave her this blessing it was one of the most beautiful blessing I
had ever heard! She was emotional all the way through! It was amazing!
I remember sitting there during the baptism with so much gratitude in
my heart! Afterwards, Bishop came up to me and and shook my hand
and said good job elder! You could tell he knew it was the right
choice! I think I realized and what the Lord wanted me to learn from
this is how the Lord is always with us when we are doing his will!  I
am gratetful for his spirit!
Hope you have a great week!

August 21, 2017: Transfer to Huddersfield

Hey family and friends
Hope this week was a good one as always! We had a good week here in
Bradford but I am sad to say it will be my last! I am going to
Huddersfield! I am a little sad! First off I am sad to leave Elder
Stanley! I have had so much fun serving with him it will be sad to
leave him!  Secondly, I am just going to miss the people here! The
culture everything! It feels like I am leaving family! The sad thing
is though I never know if I will see them again! I am so greatful  for
the time I have spent here!  I think the thing I will miss the most
about Bradford though is the food! They make the best curry here! It
is something I will defiantly miss! Bradford will carry a special
place in my heart always!

My new companions name is elder Viani! He is Italian! His English is
not the best, so we will be able to take language study so maybe I will
learn some Italian! He's got some killer dance moves this kid! He is
just the funniest guy you would ever meet! I do not know too much about
Huddersfield but I am sure it will be great! The ward I will be
serving in is Huddersfield II! Our flat is right outside a major
university which makes me exited! I haven't had the opportunity to
teach kids around my age yet!( except for Ben who just got engaged
last week they set a date for their sealing, I hope President lets me
go!  It makes me exited because there a lot more receptive to the
gospel! Overall I'm exited for the move and look forward to serving
the people of Huddersfield!

Love Elder Tuita


August 18, 2017: Opposition this week

Family and friends
Wow what a crazy week this was! First off I think the winter is
finally starting to come back we were absolutely poured on this week!
The problem with English rain is it doesn't come down in drops its
more like a mist it's the craziest thing! It's like those AZ misters we have
at home to keep you cool in the heat if you stand under one of them you will get
a small glimpse of what English rain feels like it's nutz we are
soaked all the time! Haha.  We had a miracle this week but of course
before any miracle we had a huge trial of faith.... like wow! We had some
crazy opposition this week! I have been in Bradford for a couple
months now and I can count on my hands the times someone came up to us
and started yelling at us how the quran is the word of God, but this
week alone  it seemed like every minute of the day some guy just
stopped us and starting just yelling at us! We had a moment this week
when we were walking through city center, some bloke just stopped us on
the street and just started going off! Then another then another
until there were like 8 people around us just yelling at us! The
problem is they do not just let you go to they just follow you! I kid
you not, there were crowds of people just watching us! People had there
phones out and everything it was nutz! There were lots of people that
come up to us afterwards and apologized and asked us questions!

We did a ton of finding this week in the rain! I remember one day
specifically knocking and street contacting for 6 hours! It was hard
to keep conversations with people and we did not find a lot of success
very little to none! But we continued on all day! Sunday comes around
and there is just this random girl named Allyzza that showed up to
church! She is a Phillipino girl that moved here 13 years ago who is
about 22 years old. All we did was give her a card she went to the
website found the address to the church and came on Sunday! She loved
it! She is already 6 chapters into the Book of Mormon! It was a crazy
miracle! It goes to show that no effort is wasted even if at first it
seems we did it al for nothing the Lord always expounds are efforts!

Love you guys hope you have a great week!



August 8, 2017: Prompting

Hiya yo alright,
We had a good week this week. I think the highlight of it though was Elder Ballard for sure! It was amazing to be in his presence and to be uplifted and edified by an apostle of the Lord! It was an amazing experience and one that I will remember for the remainder of my life!

I had a very cool experience this week in church we were in gospel principles class and I was teaching the class like I usually do. I was reading the book out loud to the class when I felt a very strong impression of words words to look up! When I followed the prompting I noticed a lady walking her dog on church grounds while church was in session! Then in the same prompting I heard to go talk to her! I was like are you serious?... I'm teaching a lesson right now?!  But I
knew it is what the Lord wanted me to do in that very second, so I apologized to the class for the inconvenience took Elder Stanley and walked outside. We walked outside and found her walking
out of church grounds, so we caught her attention and started to talk to her!  It turned out she grew up here when she was younger and the church use to be  grounds that her and her friends would hang out on. It brought back a lot of memories! She continued to say how she felt peaceful while she was on
the grounds and was going to come in and ask questions, but was too scared to! We talked to her and it went great.  We taught her the restoration and we are seeing her Tuesday! It was a testimony to me that God loves his children so much and he does know what we're going
through!

I love you guys and hope you have a great week!




This is a picture of Elder Campbell and I at a zone conference.  We are old elementary pals!

Monday, August 14, 2017

July 31, 2017: Companion prank

July 24, 2017: Elder Holland's thoughts

Hey familia!
Sounds like you all had an amazing week!  That is so awesome to hear about Leah! You keep reading that is amazing and Kai sounds like you had an awesome week as well! Efy is an amazing place! I don't have much time to write this week as we only have about 45 minutes in the chapel but I want you to know how much I love each and every one of you! My mind has been on a constant reflection recently of these past 20 years!  I can't believe it! It feels like yesterday I was just a kid growing up in Salt Lake in our old home! There has been so many good memories! I have been so blessed with such a great family and great life and although I have not seen him in person I have seen the lords hand in my life throughout! He's been there the whole time! I have been going through some hard times these past two weeks! I have been having some crazy dreams and some crazy feelings come over me! I do not know why?  I heard a quote from Jeffrey r Holland "To all of these and so many more, I say: Cling to your faith. Hold on to your hope. ‘Pray always, and be believing’ [​D&C 90:24​]. Indeed, as Paul wrote of Abraham, he ‘against [all] hope believed in hope’ and ‘staggered not … through unbelief.’ He was ‘strong in faith’ and was ‘fully persuaded that, what [God] had promised, he was able … to perform’ [​Romans 4:18, 20–21​]. …
​​​​“… Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, ​they come​” (​“An High Priest of Good Things to Come,”​​ Ensign,​ Nov. 1999, 36, 38)." I think sometimes in life we come to a halt in the road! We're are testimony doesn't start to fade away but your are waiting for blessings or needed strength for the moment that you are at in your life! As we hold on to our faith in these times and we are patient the Lord can humble is an mend us and sanctify us! 

I love you guys so much you are always in my prayers, love you!

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

July 17. 2017: Flat on fire and my love for Peter.

Hey family hope all is well! Thank you for all the pictures you have
been sending! They are awesome it's crazy to see how old you all look
now! Haha -well this week went pretty good!  This Sunday in church I had
to give a talk in sacrament meeting, teach the gospel principles
lesson, and teach elders quorum! It was crazy!  We did have a good week
though! The assistants went on exchange with us this week and I went contacting with
Elder Klingler.  While we were out this block flat caught on
fire! We were standing outside of Mike's flat (a previous investigator that
lived on the top floor), he went on to his balcony and shouted out to us elders 
"what's up??".. giving us a thumbs up.  But he was
completely unaware of the burning fire below him! The
firefighters ended up having to get a lift to get him down, he was
smiling the whole time! It was pretty funny! 
This week I was reading through the life of all the presidents of the
 church it was amazing to read and get to know all of them! 
They all were so valiant with their testimonies of Jesus Christ! 
Something president Lorenzo Snow said really touched my heart:
 
​​​​“If we could read in detail the life of Abraham, or the lives of
other great and holy men, we would doubtless find that their efforts
to be righteous were not always crowned with success. Hence we should
not be discouraged if we should be overcome in a weak moment; but, on
the contrary, straightway repent of the error or the wrong we may have
committed, and as far as possible repair it, and then seek to God for
renewed strength to go on and do better. …
​​​​“If the Apostle Peter had become discouraged at his manifest
failure to maintain the position that he had taken to stand by the
Savior under all circumstances, he would have lost all; whereas, by
repenting and persevering he lost nothing but gained all, leaving us
too to profit by his experience. The Latter-day Saints should
cultivate this ambition constantly which was so clearly set forth by
the Apostles in former days. We should try to walk each day so that
our conscience would be void of offense before everybody. … We must
not allow ourselves to be discouraged whenever we discover our
weakness”
I love this so much I love this example he used! If there is anybody I
feel like in this life it is Peter! To be fair after reading the New
Testament I think Peter has become one of my all time favorite! Just
because I feel I can relate to him so much! Peter loved the savior
so much and he tried his earnest to follow him, but fell short time after
time! One of my favorite examples of Peter I laugh at every
time  I read is:
Matthew 16;21,24
21 ​​¶ ​From that time forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples,
how that he must go unto Jerusalem, and suffer many things of the
elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be ​​​raised​
again the third day.
​​​​​22 ​Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be it
far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee.
​​​​​23 ​But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me,
Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou ​​​savourest​ not the
things that be of God, but those that be of men.
​​​​​24 ​​¶ ​​​​Then​ said Jesus unto his disciples, If any ​man​ will
come after me, let him ​​​deny​ himself, and take up his ​​​cross​,
and ​​​follow​ ​​​me​.

I love this so much! All Peter wanted to show and tell the Lord is
that he didn't want anyone to hurt him, and he wouldn't let that happen.
But the savior turns around and rebukes him! He probably was like man
I can't do anything right! But that is why I love Peter so much he
stayed humble and stayed by the saviors side and was patient and
in the end he became one of Christ's greatest followers to ever walk
the earth! I love peters example and I pray that I may be just as patient with
myself! I have gained such a testimony that the Lord sanctifies our
afflictions, but I learned we must be patient
and humble enough to let him!
Elder Tuita